by Belinda Kendall
Just because your friends have a man, doesn’t mean you are suppose to have one too. I know of a beautiful woman, but she can’t figure out why she is not married. She is so focus on this she has become, OCD. She is always cleaning her house, even when it’s spotless. In her mind if she keeps her house cleaner God will bless me with a husband, if she loses more weight, cut her hair, start wearing make-up, and so on, maybe then He will bless her with a husband.
You allow the devil to use your mind that you are not good enough, and that’s why you are single. You will go from dressing classy to dressing like a lose woman, just so you can get attention. Every man you meet you start talking about marriage after a few weeks.
Would you believe that God has the man for you, but it’s not time yet. There are some things God wants to do in your life, and having a relationship with a man will be nothing but a distraction and will delay the plan he has for life. You may have children that needs all of your attention at this time in their life, because they are called to do something great.
I know women that are single and very successful, but crazier than the left leg of hell. The things they have been able to accomplish in life would have never happen if they were married, or in a relationship. It wouldn’t be fair to their husband/boyfriend, if they spent more time with their career, than with him.
Now you are successful and have accomplished the things in your life you were created to do. But, now you are single, bitter, controlling, judgmental, a gossiper, angry, and crazy, because you kept trying to have a relationship out of season. THIS APPIES TO MEN TOO!!!!
Isaiah 40:31 says, “But they that wait upon the LORD shall renew their strength; they shall mount up with wings as eagles; they shall run, and not be weary; and they shall walk, and not faint.”
According to this scripture age has nothing to do with nothing, because you are never too old to fall in love, if you follow God’s plan for your life!!!!