There is a bigger conversation that needs to take place with Single Mothers


by Belinda Kendall

They need to understand that once that baby is birthed by you, your dreams, and desires are null and void, and its all about that child now.

Psalm 127:3 says, “Children are a heritage from the LORD, offspring a reward from him.” For some reason mothers are not understanding this verse and/or the meaning of a Heritage/Reward.

Heritage,“A special or individual possession; an allotted portion. God’s chosen people (the people of Israel , or the Christian Church.)”

If you can’t take care of a gift from God, why should God give you anything else?

A company will not invest in a non-profit if the CEO/Founder is taking more than 25% of the donation for their salary. You are the CEO/Founder of your company/family and if you are dressed to the nine and your children’s clothes are always dirty, hair uncombed, and not clean why would a man think about investing his hard earned money into you? Because sooner than later he knows he will start looking just like the children.

A Mother’s Love has been used for years to describe God’s love for his children. God even refers to us as His children and He as our Father. So if you think its cute to embarrass your children in public, talk down to them, or even mistreat them and spank them in public what makes you think a man wants to have any part of that. The last thing on his mind is starting a family with you, because he doesn’t want his seed to be mistreated. If a man takes up with you with this behavior he is either looking at you as a booty call, or he is just as broken as you are. Thus the relationship you have with them is unhealthy and leaves you feeling empty.

If you are praying for a man your prayer should go like this, “God send me a man that loves you the most, loves my children, and then me. Now that may seem backwards to some people that you put the children before yourself, but if your crop is dying because there has been no rain, you won’t pray that God sends rain to your address only, but to the city or state you live in. Why? Because if the city/state gets the rain that is needed you will get rain also.

You have a Heritage/Reward from God in the form of your child. You’ve got a piece of God and don’t even know how to treat it. Thus the reason your prayers may go unanswered.


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